This is a troubling area for me. I am trying to so hard to keep Jays love for learning going without becoming an unschooler. Not that there is anything wrong with unschooling infact, when I homeschooled my son this was my approach because he had been so programmed. All she really wants to do is play all day she doesn’t want to go to dance class anymore because she rather play. “LIGHTBULB” maybe for christmas I can buy all learning toys, life skills toys, toys that we can actually play school with, and she is learning! HMMMM we shall see.